Where the Blue Birds Nest

Meet Me on Monday - 11/28/11

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1. I really need to clean my.... My House!! We just moved into our new condo/town home this weekend. Boxes, News paper, and chaos...are pretty much everywhere.

2. What food makes you think of Christmas? Pumpkin Bread and these rolled Sugar Cookies we used to make as a kid.

3. If you could choose to stay a certain age forever, what would it be? 25 all the way!

4. What was your first paying job? Dog Bather for a local grooming shop. It was the best job ever!

5. Have you read the twilight series? No, I have not. But I am addicted to the movies. I still havent had the chance to see Breaking Dawn, part one. I am about ready to throw a fit because of it.

Diesel's version of Packing

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When left to his own devices...

Were Moving...

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And I'm not happy!

Our Current Landlords couldn't keep up with their mortgage payment...even though we have paid them on time, and our rent is more than their mortgage.

We found out about the foreclosure from the mortgage company via mail...they couldn't even call us.

When we approached them on the matter they told us that they were in the process of a loan modification.

Then a few days later we were told that they had a verbal agreement with the Lender. All was good.

A month or so later...the letters began again...and then we had a visitor who interacted with our neighbors wondering if we were the owners or renters...

Our neighbors are wonderful...they mentioned the conversation with the unknown probably bank guy in passing. We assumed based on our previous discussions with the Landlords that we would be working with the lender for a move out date, that they were foreclosing, and that we would have a minimum of 90 days to move out per Obama's new laws.

3 days later we got a call...from our landlords...I texted a reply.. "I'm at work I will call when I get home"

Hours later on November 10th we found a note taped to our door. A 30 day notice...were on a month to month lease...

30 Days = December 10

We are angry...we feel wronged...we have to move between Thanksgiving and Christmas....Oh...did I mention that we expecting 35 people this year for Thanksgiving at my parents house and I'm expected to Bake 2 pies and a cake.

We found a place...we fell in love...we put our application in..they choose someone else..

We found another place today...we are in serious like...we put out application in...Pray for us..

Were Packing....and I'm not Happy!!!

Sorry for the negative tone...I know God is in control. I know he something wonderful in mind...I just need to be mad for a while...or at least that's what Ryan says...

Loving on my Husband - Fun with Mirrors

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Ryan had a big meeting at work earlier this week. He was a little hyped up about it. I wanted to make sure he left the house feeling loved, wanted, confident, and excited for the day!

I took that terrible color of red lip liner that I never wear...and had some fun with Mirrors.

Pray, Count to Ten, Keep your head up, Smile

Greatness!! Its what your were made for Sweet Cheeks!

You will do great!

Lets here is for the boy!! Lets hear it for my Man!! - Its was a footloose moment...Makes me smile!

Love of your Men Ladies...its good stuff!

October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 31 - Spooky

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 30 - Broken

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 29 - Panic

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 28 - Something your afraid of

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 27 - Scar

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Double Date Fun - Friday Night Fright at Heritage Hill

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In my hunt for fun and low cost options for Date Night Ideas, I have found a gold mine in reseraching city and local events at state parks near our home.

Check out your local newspapers, city websites, and radio stations for fun events.

Our city has a Historical Site called Heritage Hill. They have an annual Halloween Haunt Event.

For $5 bucks each we spent the evening with our Dear Friends enjoying the festivities.

Scary School House Maze, A Dance Troope dancing "Thriller" and lots of Laughs and Fun!

Carnival Games and Charactictures

Blog Bash Welcome

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Joining in on the Blog Bash Fun!

Welcome to a little piece of my world!

A little bit about me:

I’m a southern girl…well…a Southern California Girl who was born on the wrong side of the Mississippi River.

I am a Child of God, and Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior.

I’m pretty passionate about the people in my life, baking and cooking, and loving on my Husband.

I do my best impression of Wonder Woman, Martha Stewart and Cindy Crawford while working full time as a Program Manager for a large Health Insurance Organization.

I’m pretty busy, but a born Multi-tasker and Organizer, which comes in handy, especially when making time to nap with my two puppies or enjoying the Ladies in my Bible Study!

We are in the “process” of adopting a child to grow our family. It’s a rough road, but we believe our creator is leading our steps.

A little bit about my bog:

The Blue Birds Nest

Come join me for some Bubble Blowing, Butterfly Chasing, and Bible Thumping Good Times…All with a side of Ketchup

Bubble Blowing – This is the good stuff of life: Memories to Share, Photo Challenges, Sewing and Craft Projects, and Organization Tips or Housekeeping

Butterfly Chasing – My dreams, ponderings, and seasonal goals

Bible Thumping – Bible Focused, Prayer Lead, Jesus Finding, Soul Rejoicing thoughts and study.

All with a Side of Ketchup – My favorite recipes and Menu Planning

I hope you will come stay and play awhile!

October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 26 - Moon

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 25 - Make up

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 24 - Decorations

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 23 - Shoot from the Hip

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The Simple Woman's Daybook - October 25, 2011

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FOR TODAY – October 25, 2011

Outside my window...are lots of grey and white fluffy clouds. It’s definitely a fall day here in California.

I am thinking...about closed toed shoes...I like my flip flops and sandals a lot...and giving them up for fall and winter feels like prison for my feet.

I am thankful...for my Mom. She is pretty fantastic at loving me.

In the kitchen...BBQ Pulled Pork for our potluck at Woman’s Bible study tonight.

I am wearing...A red/black top, black slacks, and Black heeled sandals.

I am creating...our Family Portfolio for our Adoption. Pictures, Pictures, and Pictures.

I am going...to the DMV at lunch today to get a copy of my driving record for our Adoption.

I am wondering...if my husband is having a better day than yesterday. I am praying special prayers for him today.

I am reading... 20 things Adoptive Parents Need to Succeed by Sherrie Eldridge, and The Help

I am hoping...to add 30 minutes of exercise a day to my life, starting tomorrow..Of course.

I am looking forward to...spending some time working on laundry and housekeeping tomorrow. We had a very busy weekend last week and another one coming up. Taking the time to keep things picked up during the week is really helpful!

I am hearing...lots of old classics..I’ve been in a funk..Musically...I’m in a New York State of Mind

Around the house...Laundry, Cleaning, getting ready for this weekend. Right now we are expecting 9 guests for Pumpkin Carving at our house on Sunday.

I am pondering...thoughts of our Adoption, specifically the sacrifices we will make as parents. As we finish up our paperwork and get ready to start our home study, I find myself weakened by the process and the hoops we have to jump. I think thoughts about other people who just magically conceive without an emergency plan or fingerprints, and how crazy and intrusive this all feels. Then I think about how our world will change when we have our little one, and how worth all of this will be.

One of my favorite things...these new boots I saw at Macys last night. I didn’t buy them just yet..but they will be mine!

A few plans for the rest of the week: Work, Knott’s Scary Farm on Friday Night, a Cemetery Tour in Long Beach on Saturday Night, and Pumpkin Carving with Friends and Family on Sunday Night

Goosebumps versus Godbumps

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1. 3 Ladies in my Bible Study Circle – Are Adoptive Mom’s – Gives me Goosebumps – I love that I have women so close to me that have walked the journey I’m on…but its Bible study..and us Christian folk are called to adopt..so I find myself wonderfully thankful but not totally surprised.

2. 1 lady in my Bible Study Circle – Was Adopted – Gives me Goosebumps – I love that I have the opportunity to see the blessing that Adoption can be in someone’s life, but again..not totally surprised due to the setting I met her in.

3. Phone Agent making appointments for our Live Scan Fingerprinting first call – Was Adopted 29 years ago – Gives me Godbumps.

4. Talking with Same Phone Agent coincidentally on a Second Call (out of 100 other Reps) - Gives me even bigger Godbumps

How do I define Godbumps – Those rare moments when you get goosebumps and shiver because you knew for a few brief moments that you could see the hand of your creator, and actually feel his warmth.

October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 22 - I am here

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 21 - I ate this

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 20 - Signs

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 19 - Doorway

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 18 - Stars

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 17 - A Stranger

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 16 - Something Black

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 15 - Pumpkins

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 14 - Hallway

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 13 - 13

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 12 - Candy

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 11 - Laughter

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 10 - A Light in the Dark

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 9 - Something Purple

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Blog Party Welcome - Country Porch Friends

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Joining in on the Blog Party Fun!

Welcome to a little piece of my world!

A little bit about me:

A little bit about my bog:

I hope you will come stay and play awhile!

October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 8 - Peek a Boo

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 7 - Water

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 6 - Straw

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 5 - Mirror

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"Live what you Believe in"

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I was reading a favorite blog today, and these words struck my heart "Live what you Believe In"....

They make my heart race, they make me excited. They are a bold command, one that feels Biblically driven, and Humanly Possible.

"Live what you believe in."

As we continue working on our paper work and saving money for the adoption, I am learning that making conscious decisions while walking in faith is a convicting and humbling process.

This process has really helped us define some of our beliefs leading us to understand more of each other.

I have learned the following:

I believe that God wants this adoption for our family.

I believe that God will meet us where we need him.

I believe that our home, family, and friends will be a haven for the Child that God has planned for us.

I believe that our marriage is Heaven Breathed, and that it can grow with flexibility as we grow our family.

I believe that I will be a Mother.

As we continue to walk down this path, I find my self being convicted to “Live what I Believe In”

October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 4 - Stairs

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 3 - Bubbles

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Apple Sauce Cooking on the Stove. Nom Nom Nom

Menu Plan Monday 10/3/11

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Monday - Pork Chops, Mac N Cheese, Cornbread
Tuesday - Out - Bible Study
Wednesday - Taylor Tacos
Thursday - Hamburger Helper, Garlic Bread
Friday - Out - Date Night
Saturday - Out - Oktoberfest
Sunday - Meat Loaf, Mashed Potato Casserole, Corn, Croissants, with Homemade Oatmeal Cookies and Milk for Dessert

October 31 Day Photo Challenge- Day 2 - Leaves

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October 31 Day Photo Challenge - Day 1 - Fall

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Nothing like a Beautiful Southern California Orange Sunset to remind me of the Changing Seasons.

4 days to the October Photo Challenge

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4 days to the Challenge

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Signs

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I pray for signs alot these days. I find myself longing for God to make himself known.

I pray for signs for my friends and loved ones. I ask for things like open doors, and beautiful sunrises, and gifts of friendship.

I want them to know the God I know, and to feel his peace and comfort during difficult times.

I long for them to feel the hope and encouragement of their creator, to understand that they truly are not alone.

And then once in awhile I pray for a sign myself. During our journey to grow our family we have be met with lots of challenges. From a disrupted adoption, to some infertility issues, I have felt myself longing to meet my Lord and know that he is near. I have cried out in anxiety hoping that he would provide direction and proof that he is here and in control.

Those times are much too quiet and dark. My humanness starts to fill my heart, and I plague myself with questions of doubt and disbelief, and then I start to see signs.

Signs like every time I start to become uncertain about our choice to adopt, and I start to consider giving up I find myself connected with a member of the Adoption Triad. Either a Birth Mother, and Adopted Child, or an Adoptive Parent that strengthens my resolve.

Most recently Mr.Schaaf and I were driving home and out of the night sky an Owl flew majestically across ahead of us. Just Earlier that day I had found my thoughts very dark as my heart was missing and longing for more time with my grandparents, and the family of my childhood. I have always longed to provide that to a child, and now those who I held most precious as a child are growing old and returning home to my lord.

The Moment the owl crossed our windshield, my heart groaned. Owl's were something my My Dad's Mom collected. Mar as she was affectionately known, took a huge piece of my heart when she was called home to heaven. I am of her. That moment, that owl, was a sign. A sign from my almighty God. A sign saying He is in control, He has always been in control, He will not let me Go.

I asked for a sign, a sign that the path we are one is one that will Glorify him. I ask for a sign that I would know, I would feel, one that my heart would understand. As faithful as he is...he gave me just the sign I needed.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - September 19, 2011

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FOR TODAY ... 9/19/11

OUTSIDE MY WINDOW ... Some fabulous blue skies, not a cloud in sight!

I AM THINKING ... about different family cultures and the confusion they can bring to one’s life!

I AM THANKFUL FOR ... the insight of our church home, and their timely launch of an Adoption Themed Bible Study Class. Its good stuff!

FROM THE KITCHEN ... We have lots of Birthdays to celebrate this week, so that means lots of eating out. Looking forward to cooking a new Caramel Cake recipe on Sunday.

I AM WEARING ... Blue and White Top, Black Slacks, Black Sandal heals.

I AM CREATING ... A new fleece tie blanket, My last one got burnt up by our dryer, and a camera bag insert for my purse.

I AM READING ... “20 Things Adoptive Parents Need to Succeed” by Sherrie Eldridge, “The Help” by Katherine Stockett

I AM HEARING ... lots of music..my playlist is working it today!

AROUND THE HOUSE ... Working on cleaning out my guest room for two great reasons…1.My Aunt from out of town may be coming to stay with us for a night, 2. We have this thing called a home study to-do..and that sweet Baby we are praying for..needs a place to sleep!

ONE OF MY FAVORITE THINGS ... A new yogurt type drink I found. Its good stuff.

A FEW PLANS FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK ... My Sister In Law’s Birthday Dinner tonight, Bible Study on Tuesday Night, A Good Friends Birthday Dinner on Thursday, Date Night at home on Friday, Trip to Pick Apples on Saturday, Church and Sunday Dinner on Sunday.

SOMETHING TO SHARE

These guys belong to my husband, they have all been friends for a very long time!! We shared some space and fun with them this last weekend. Memories that will make me smile for a while!

Menu Plan Monday 09/19/11

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Monday - Out SIL Birthday
Tuesday - Out Bible Study
Wednesday - Hamburger Helper, Garlic Bread
Thursday - Out Friend's Birthday
Friday - Pork Chops, Mac N Cheese, Peas, Corn Bread
Saturday - Out - Apple Picking
Sunday - Chicken Rollups, Twice Baked Potatoes, Southern Skillet Corn, Caramel Cake

Adoption Paperwork...First Pass complete and mailed

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At first glance the paperwork involved was pretty overwhelming.

I started the first pass by completing the pages that were the easiest and lease complicated.

I used these cute little pink and blue tabs to identify the places Ryan needed to sign.

We talked and read, and discussed the options that we were signing.

Then he said..."Adoptive Father sign here"...my heart jumped!! It was the first time I could saw this sweet man as a Father. What an amazing one he will be!

Date Night - Camp at Home

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Date Night is always something I look forward too. I try to plan one every week, but sometimes we trade our time together for time with friends and family. Its a balance type of thing. This week I planned a date night with a Camp Theme.

We started the night with home cooked goodness...

I grilled some steaks on the BBQ, made a Mashed Potato Dish, some Corn and Rolls. All of his favorites!!!

I then asked him sweetly to take a hike so I could set up Camp Schaaf!

Complete with

Portable sleeping arrangements in the Living room

And an indoor "campfire" complete with tent light

and Smores!!

And we were visited by our friendly furry ghost!!!

We had two choices for Camp Fire "Stories"

Something Scary...

and something affectionately known as a "Chick Flick"

We had a great time making smores all by flash light

Which all ended with a Happy Husband!!!

Sometimes its fun to just spend some time doing something a little Silly in and Ordinary Place...that turns into and Extraordinary Evening!

Announcement - October 31 Day Photo Challenge for Fall 2011

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Come Join in on some Photography Fun for October. I will post a linky widget on October 1 for those of you who want to post on your blogs. I will also be posting via facebook. Click here to join the group.

This is a challenge do celebrate our creativity, not necessarily for judgement or prizes!!

Hope you will join us for some fun!

A New Story Begins - Domestic Infant Adoption

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We attended an Orientation at Bethany tonight for their Domestic Infant Adoption Program. It was from 1pm to 9pm with a couple breaks. I'm exhausted, on total input overload. I needed a moment to stop and write what I'm feeling.
I want to giggle with excitement, and cry at the same time...
We paid for the next step to complete our extended application.
There are some parts of this process that only God can make happen. I have faith that this is his plan for our lives. For the first time, I get to live out that faith.
Taking a step forward!!

Momma's Easy Cherry Cheesecake

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This is one of my favorite desserts.

My Momma makes it best...I add a sprinkle too much sugar!! Wink Wink

This is one of those cure what ail's ya type of yummy things!

What's It Take to Make?

1/2 Cup Sugar

Cool Whip

Whipped Cream Cheese

Cherry Pie Filling

Graham Cracker Crust

How do you make it?

Mix Cream Cheese and Sugar until Sugar is well mixed.

Then add the Cool Whip and Mix

Pour Mixture into the crust

Is there such a think as fake Graham Cracker Crumbs??? I'm Scared...

Add some Cherrys, and put in the fridge for at least an hour.

Serve up...don't forget to give the first slice to your Main Squeeze!! Its good stuff!

Menu Plan Monday 09/12/11

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Monday - Hamburger Helper, Garlic Bread
Tuesday - Out to Eat - Bible Study
Wednesday - Out to Eat - Adoption Seminar
Thursday - Shake N Bake Pork Chops, Mac N Cheese, Peas, Cornbread
Friday - Date Night - BBQ Steaks, Loaded Mashed Potato Casserole
Saturday - Out to Eat - Aquarium of the Pacific
Sunday - BBQ Ranch Chicken, Three Cheese Pasta Bake, Steamed Veggies, Garlic Bread, Baked Apples for Dessert

Dessert for the week - Mom's Easy Cherry Cheese Cake - Post to follow

In Memory - 9/11/2011

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These are the Days of our Lives - Summer Plans - Updated

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Well the last day of Summer September 23 is right around the corner. I had some plans for my summer, I love Summer its Warm, its Wild, its Wonderful! Here in California it looks like we might have a very summery fall!

My Plans for summer were:

Around the House:

1. Organize Laundry Area - Not even started yet...grrrr

~~2. Clean Carpets~~ Done

3. Get new Dryer -Still got old faithful, need to start shopping around.

Personal Stuff:

1. ~~Do something active and outside during the weekend~~. We did alot this Summer, and were pretty active good stuff!

2. Work on Design for Blog - In progress

~~3. Learn more about my Camera/Photography~~ Done - 30 Day Summer Photography Challenge was Awesome!!

4. Work on Needlepoint Projects - Especially Christmas Gift Ideas - Another not-started hmmm...got to get on this.

5. Make New Fleece Blankets - I have the fleece!! Woo Whoo 1/2 Way there!!

Family Fun:

1. ~~Date Night with the Hubby on Friday Nights~~ We went on date nights and we spent time with family and friends.

2. ~~Sunday Dinners with Family and Friends~~ Did this a couple times, need to work ont his for the fall.

3. Make Homemade Ice Cream - Still no Homemade Ice Cream! I know whats on the menu for this weekend!!

It's a Love Thing - Genesis 22:2

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Genesis 22:2 - Then God said, “Take your son, your only son, whom you love—Isaac—and go to the region of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering on a mountain I will show you.”

Things to think about:

1. Abraham - Devoted follower of God

2. Issac - a Beloved Son

3. Sacrifice

In our current journey for a family, I have done some soul searching as I read about the women in the bible who prayer and begged God for Children. The Son's of these women all are called to a high calling. All have intimate relationships with God. All are sacrificed to Kingdom Building.

Oh the mixed feelings this causes me. I am so filled with Human Doubt. When I think about the moments after God gave this command, and what Abraham must have thought. Yet alone, what Isaac's sweet mother must have felt...my heart breaks.

Yet in all of it, Abraham was obedient. I hope with all hopes that if God chooses to bless us with Children, I too will be obedient to his call for their lives.

1. How will I keep God the focus of our parenting.

2. How do I work one creating a closer relationship with the Lord, so I will trust his direction and call.

3. How do I prepare my heart for the separation that will one day come from my children.

It's a Love Thing - Genesis 20:13

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Genesis 20:13 - And when God had me wander from my father’s household, I said to her, ‘This is how you can show your love to me: Everywhere we go, say of me, “He is my brother.”

So…Were to Abraham and Sarah Now….

A couple things to remember:

1. Abraham is called by the Lord – Abraham hears him in his dreams

2. They travelled a lot.

3. A Pharaoh fell in love with Sarah

4. Sodom and Gomorrah are Destroyed

5. A second King has fallen in love with Sarah

Poor Poor Abraham to have such a pretty wife. The lies they weave for his security have such a costly price. Both the Egyptian Kingdom and the Kingdom of Gerar feel the sting of God’s protection of Abraham and Sarah.

The thought of calling my husband my brother, and allowing another man to court me, feels the opposite of Love to me, however God’s faithfulness and protection of their marriage truly amazes me.

Questions:

1. Why didn’t Abraham trust the Almighty God after the first go around with Pharaoh?

2. Would I be willing to follow those instructions from my husband?

3. Do I trust that God would protect my Marriage and my Husband in similar ways?

Its a Love Thing - Genesis 4:25

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Genesis 4:25 - Adam made love to his wife again, and she gave birth to a son and named him Seth, saying, “God has granted me another child in place of Abel, since Cain killed him.”

So we are back to this pro-creating stuff again....Be Fruitful Right...

I love what is going on in this chapter.

1. We see where the life of Cain leads him, and his off spring.

2. We see the grace of God again.

3. He gives Adam and Eve Seth

More gifts and Blessings, Renewal, and Rebirth!

I look into my life and wonder some things.

1. What Blessings from God do I see in my daily life? I have so many, my husband, my parents, our families, our friends, our Jobs, our Home. All of it is a direct gift for God. How Blessed are we!

2. What do I do to show my thanksgiving for these Blessings? By Loving all of the Blessings he gives me. By finding the Blessings that I don’t see right away, By being a Blessing to others.

3. How will I use this time without Children to Bless my Lord? Focus on my walk with God, my health, and my marriage. Listen to the Wind for Angel Wings, and Look to the Heavens for Blue Birds and Butterflies. All of which are gifts from my Lord.

Its a Love Thing - Genesis 4:17

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Genesis 4:17- Cain made love to his wife, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Enoch. Cain was then building a city, and he named it after his son Enoch.

Wow..So far Love in Genesis is all about this procreation stuff!!!

I guess it shouldn’t be a surprise that the Book of Bible that speaks of God’s amazing work of creation, focuses on the continued creation of the human species.

Let’s take a look at what was happening in Genesis 4.

1. Cain and Able were Born

2. The first Farmer and Sheppard yielded their first crops and flocks on the Planet.

3. Jealousy reared its Ugly Head

4. Murder, Blood, Sin – A Son is killed.

5. Cain is cursed to wander the Earth, and is left with “a Mark”

Yet in all of this, God gives Cain a wife, a Son, and a City. The responsibility of Husband, and Father, and now City Founder.

When I look back on the sin in my life, I am grateful for the opportunities that God has continued to place in my path. For the responsibility that comes with Loving those he has placed next to me on this earth.

I am Thankful for the Mark that God has placed on my heart. The Mark of The Lord Jesus, of God’s Only Son, The Sacrifice of his life, The Ultimate Gift of Love.

Questions from the Heart:

1. How will I show the Mark on my Life?

My Actions – Reading from the Bible regularly, Actively Pursuing my Lord, Speaking Lovingly to my family and friends

2. How will I own the responsibility of Loving those around me?

Actively Look for ways to care for those around me. Weekly phone calls to Family and Friends, Birthday Cards, Patience and Kindness when others react differently than I expect.

3. How will I react when Jealousy rears its head in my heart?

Pray, Pray, Pray

It’s a Love Thing – Genesis 4:1

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Genesis 4:1 – Adam made love to his wife Eve, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Cain. She said, “With the help of the LORD I have brought forth a man.”

Well that’s the way start this whole thing off!

Let’s take a moment and look back to Genesis 3

1. These are the first two humans ever created.

2. Forbidden Fruit had been eaten.

3. The curse of Severe Pains of Childbirth was handed down by the almighty God.

4. Adam and Eve were tossed out of the Garden and a flaming sword stood in their path of going back.

5. The Fall of Man Kind was complete.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t hear Mr. Barry White playing in the back ground when I think about the circumstances. I really would like to ask Eve “Sweet Girl…Severe Birth Pains…are you sure that’s the direction you want to go”.

Yet, in the fallout of the first of human failures God blessed Adam and Eve with three precious gifts!

1. The ability to love each other.

2. The physical intimacy to support that Love.

3. A Son

I am amazed that those gifts are still blessings we have today after so many years living outside The Garden. Unfortunately, our Human Family has not always treated these Blessings with the respect and awe they deserve. We hear stories every day of Abusive Relationships, Broken Marriages, STD’s, Teenage Pregnancies, and Child Abuse.

I’m left with questions in my heart.

1. How can I love my husband better?

One of my current struggles is the tone of voice I use with him. In times of aggravation I can come off sounding disrespectful and uncaring. I am sure these are the times when he feels least loved. I need to work on that.

2. How can I keep that flame alive?

We need to get going to bed earlier, on purpose…with purpose. We spend our evenings zoned out watching TV and what not and when that clock hits 10:30 we head to bed, exhausted and certainly not in the mood, if you know what I mean! Wink Wink.

3. How will I someday teach my children the Blessing of loving another person and the respect that relationship deserves?

The only real answer I can come up with is Actions speak louder than words. By loving and respecting my husband, I will teach my own children the importance and value of a loving Christian Marriage. I will be an example, I will be an example, I will be an example.

What about you? Got any answers to these Questions?

It’s a Love Thing – Genesis

2011-09-07T09:43:00.003-07:00

There are 21 Accounts of the word Love in Genesis – Sound Like a Great Place to Start!

Genesis 4:1

Genesis 4:17

Genesis 4:25

Genesis 20:13

Genesis 22:2

Genesis 24:67

Genesis 25:28

Genesis 29:17

Genesis 29:18

Genesis 29:20

Genesis 29:21

Genesis 29:23

Genesis 29:30

Genesis 29:31

Genesis 29:32

Genesis 29:33

Genesis 34:3

Genesis 37:3

Genesis 37:4

Genesis 38:2

Genesis 44:20

Its a Love Thing

2011-09-07T09:42:00.001-07:00

It’s a call to action, it’s an emotion we crave, and it’s a gift to both the giver and received.

It’s a Love thing.

The Bible, Our Salvation, His Son’s Death…It’s a love thing.

I am on a mission. Wanna join me?

Every Thursday I am going to focus my thoughts on learning about Love from God’s Word.

Starting in Genesis and Ending in Revelation, I want to discover every use of the word Love.

I will post the verse, some of my own thoughts and questions. Feel free to comment back, or link to the post with your own feelings and perspective!

The “Nevertheless” Life

2011-09-07T09:38:00.001-07:00

Im Moving over some of my writing from my another blog since I am going to revamp Blue Birds Nest.

Luke 5:5 And Simon answering said unto him, Master, we have toiled all the night, and have taken nothing: nevertheless at thy word I will let down the net.

I love this picture. I love this story. It’s new to me, fresh this day!

It’s funny how some stories you hear time and again, and then something sparks, peaks an interest, touches your heart. You get it.

I have lots of self-centered reasons to love this story and verse.

First it happens on the sea. I love the Ocean, and Lakes, and well pretty much anything having to do with Water.

Second it has to do with fish. My love of water has often led me to a wonderful longing to interact with the creatures of the Sea.

Thirdly it speaks of a wonderfully human man full of failures and disbelief, beloved by his lord, and cherished by his Maker, yet continuously tested as he follows a living, breathing, miracle working Jesus.

You can say I totally relate to the story.

You could probably go as far as saying I may have some genealogical connect to Sweet Peter.

His words, the tone I imagine him using, and the anxiety of his heart all speak to mine.

Yet, he has a moment of clarity, the heart of a believer, and a willing soul seeking faith…NEVERTHELESS

Nevertheless is defined as despite a situation.

Nevertheless is a beautiful representation of a living faith.

I came across this Website as I was searching for some information on Photography and Scrapbooking.

I came across this post , and it captured my thoughts.

I wanted a Soul Word. It’s Almost June of 2011 and I had an intense need to connect to a Word! I wanted the direction and loyalty to use the second half of this year living the value found in a soul word.

And then I heard this verse…and Nevertheless Captured me!

Over the first part of the year, this word was in my heart, and I didn’t even know it.

My husband lost his job, Nevertheless Lord, we trust you to provide.

My Department had a complete re-organization; Nevertheless Lord, I trust your plan.

Our plan to adopt a little boy from Ukraine was ripped out of our dreams when he was adopted by another couple, Nevertheless Lord, we will keep our hearts open for other opportunities to grow our family.

My plans to lose weight have been put on the back burner due to sickness, self sabotage, and emotional and hormonal warfare, Nevertheless Lord , I know if I put my faith in you , you will help me to be healthy and care for my Physical Self.

As the year proceeds, I know that I will always have choices on how I respond to what is put in my path; Nevertheless, I will follow my Lord, because like Peter I am beloved by my Creator.

With much excitement! I have a Soul Word for the rest of this year! NEVERTHELESS

It’s a Love Thing – Genesis

2011-09-07T09:01:00.000-07:00

Small Town Sports Celebrated with Big Time Fans - Northern California Trip Labor Day 2011

2011-09-06T21:18:00.000-07:00

This is James, he's one of the Great Grand
Babies in our Family! He is loved for his heart
not only his cute looks!

This is his older brother John, he is another
one of the great grand babies, and an equally amazing
young man!

Are you ready for some FOOTBALL!!

Proud Grandparents

GO #78 GOOOOOO

This is a proud Momma!!

They Won 30 to 0...and the crowd roars!!!

Our Hero!!

A proud Daddy! Can you smell the stink from here?

Color Me Mine - Labor Day 2011

2011-09-06T21:15:00.000-07:00

Sunday In Ceres - Labor Day 2011

2011-09-06T21:02:00.000-07:00

Sunday Morning Spent Praising Jesus and Decisions to follow his word. James requesting to be Baptized. Lunch with my Family, Boys being Boys!!

Grandma's Roses - Northern California Labor Day Trip 2011

2011-09-06T21:00:00.000-07:00

Garden Of Gold

I walk through the garden,
On this warm summer’s day,
To smell the flowers,
That grandma raised.

In the middle,
Of this garden of gold,
Stood this one,
Single red stem rose,
The rose means so many things,
From the ones you receive on your wedding day,
To the one you get on Valentine’s Day,
But this single rose standing here today,
Represents the love grandma gave.

From the love she gave,
When she planted it that day,
To the love she gave us,
Each and every day,
So when you pass this garden of gold,
Remember the love that this rose holds.

Source: Garden Of Gold, Garden Poem http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/garden-of-gold#ixzz1XEg3o4tN
Family Friend Poems

Grandma and my Mom, stopping for smiles
around the roses!

My Mom and her Sweet Niece Janie Marie!

Traveling to Northern California - Labor Day 2011

2011-09-06T20:48:00.000-07:00

My Mom and I have Brighton Charm Bracelets.
We now have matching plane charms.

Flying on Southwest!!!
At this point my mom was questioning if cameras were
part of the "electronics" that were not allowed during
take off...hmmmm...we didnt crash..I guess not.

Me and my Mom. She makes a great traveling partner.

Heading to the bagage claim!

Welcome to Sacramento!

Rental Car Sillyness!

Our Rental Car!! Be prepared for bug guts!!

Call to Prayer - Seven Christians Released on Bail, 26 still in Prison

2011-02-07T05:52:00.000-08:00

One of the Ladies in my Bible Study works for our Missions Department. She shared an email from Sam Yeghnazar of Elam Ministries. Elam Ministries works to share the Gospel of Christ to people in Iran and beyond.

32 Christians were arrested in Iran on December 26 for their faith. The stories of their arrests, the efforts of their families to free them, and the pleas of children longing to hear from their parents, are all breath taking and heart breaking.

Sam asks for 3 specific areas of prayer:
1. The release of All Christian Prisoners
2. End to demands for all bail
3. Government to stop policy of "religious cleansing"

Please join me in prayer for these Captive Christians, their Faith, and their Families!

XOXO
Bri

New Bible Study – Breaking Free by Beth Moore

2010-09-22T13:22:00.000-07:00

I started a new bible study this week at Church. It’s Breaking Free by Beth Moore. Our study includes video watching, scripture memorizing, and small group study.

We started with the first week’s video last night. This is my first Beth Moore study, and I am totally impressed. Her passion, her crazy zeal, the tone she uses when she says “Girlfriend….”. I feel like I have found a wonderful friend, who understands the tough stuff in my soul and knows how to help me see a new future in Christ.

A couple of things that really caught my hearts attention….
- “Freed up from our “Again” – I have made so many decisions to stop doing something that has put a void between myself and God, only to find myself in the weakness of the AGAIN. Lord, why are we dealing with this hurt and pain again?? Oh yeah because I made the decision to do this AGAIN…
- “Bathe your brain in the Word of God” – This is a saying she used a couple times. I ABSOLUTELY ADORE IT!! It’s such a wonderful word picture. I always picture my relationship with God as a heart thing. All the emotional gook of life, I had never pictured it filled with thought and skill.
- “The Fathers Glory bears much fruit” – I want to be “profoundly effective, and profoundly fruit bearing”.
- “These are the days of war – learn how to fight the good fight!” – Last night was the first time in close to 10 years that I had prayed out loud in a group of believers. All the emotion and nerves really helped me to connect to the necessity of an active walk with the Lord. Talk about Glorified Guilt trip!!
- “Nothing that we are holding on to is worth what we are giving up.”, “Anything that gets killed, needed to die.”, “Don’t be scared of what it will cost you. “ – I started this journey thinking that I wasn’t in bondage, that I was free from oppression, that I didn’t know what I would get out of this study. My eyes have been opened, and my heart is longing to be searched and purified.
I pray for a passion and vulnerability to what God is doing in my life, and in the lives of those around me.

Love ya Like Crazy
Bri

The Simple Womans Day Book - 5/11/10

2010-05-11T13:52:00.001-07:00

FOR TODAY…May 11, 2010

Outside my window...Sunny and 68 Degrees!!! Glorious Southern California!!!

I am thinking...about plans to go to the Renaissance Faire for my Birthday in a couple weekends. Looking forward to all the shows, eating, a little drinking (when in Rome…) a glass of beer never hurt anyone… and play time with family and friends.

I am thankful for...the amazing weather we have had. I am praying for all of the people affected by the crazy weather in the south. Our family in Tennessee hasn’t been affected by the flooding, thank goodness.

From the kitchen... Lots of Juicing and Chicken. We got a juicer a few weeks ago and have really enjoying the added energy and other healthy side effects. We are also are cutting back on beef and eating more chicken.

I am wearing... A black and white top, black slacks, and black flats.

I am creating... A prayer shawl - crocheting it with this beautiful black, grey, and white variegated yarn. Love it!

I am going...to the Laundry mat tonight. Our dryer died….after a totally agonizing death….

I am reading...just finished the Winthrop Woman by Anya Seton. Great Book! Hoping to get back aligned with the Kindred Spirits Book Group and read May’s book Pearl Maiden.

I am hoping...to hear from a ministry opportunity I am trying to get involved with!

I am hearing...not much of anything…my IPod has taken a dump… I hate it when technology decides to take a vacation…

Around the house... Lots of on purpose picking up. We are in the midst of a couple crazy weeks. Both socially and Work wise we have been really busy!! Keeping picked up really keeps the stress level down.

One of my favorite things... My Dryer…RIP sweet dryer!

A few plans for the rest of the week: Tomorrow is our 3 year Anniversary! We are celebrating it on Saturday. Friday I am going to Magic Mountain with my Dad, and Sunday is my Grand Nephew’s first birthday!

Special Thanks and Blessings to Peggy at The Simple Woman for hosting this post.

Praying and Crocheting....

2010-05-10T13:49:00.000-07:00

We are struggling…or I should restate that…I am struggling…

I had a plan…Married by 25, Babies by 30…

I met Mr. Right…got married…at 28...totally blessed by God!

I’m getting ready to celebrate my 31st birthday…and find myself wishing, hoping and praying for a little one to call our own.

In a recent moment of despair (my birthday and Mothers Day…just happen to be in the same month)…I found myself lying on my favorite pity pot..Which happens to be the size of our bed… feeling very sorry for myself. After much poking and prodding about what he could do to change my mood…Mr. Perfect finally got the answer he was looking for in the form of tears and blubbering. “GIVE ME A BABY”…as if there was anything he could do about it…

I’m the one who needs to lose weight, I’m the one who’s diabetic, and I’m the one who has polycystic ovarian disease.

Can you hear my fists pounding…and my feet stomping…

Somewhere between the last months of tests and doctors appointments my “think I can” turned into a “we never will”….Which has slowly been shaped into “we never could without God”….a wonderful fact that my husband reminded me of.

I started crocheting a prayer shawl…Every stitch is a prayer that God will give me the perseverance to change my eating habits and the energy to get into the gym. Every Chain is a prayer that in his perfect timing he will give us the baby we have been praying and wishing for.

In the mean time, I will continue to love this man that God gave me. He has never pressured me about having children. A wonderful blessing to me. If only I could take that pressure off myself. Maybe that’s something else I need to pray about.

Show Us Your Life - Baby Names.

2010-05-10T13:27:00.000-07:00

Special Thanks and Blessings to Kelly who hosts Show us you’re Life (Click the button above to get there)

If and when we are blessed with sweet babies… here is what I would name them….I was trying to make it a we thing…but like my husband’s taste in t-shirts…the names he has thrown out…just aren’t quite right…ha!

Girl Name 1 – Emmalynn Margaret -
Emma – What can I say I will forever be a Jane Austen Girl!! It’s also the closest thing to Ella, which is my Mom’s name (Which she hates..lol)
Lynn – My Sweet Sister in Laws Middle Name, and I just love the country twang, after all my Mother’s side of the family was born and bred, in Arkansas and Louisiana... its in my genes!
Margaret – After my beloved Grandmother on my Father’s side of the family! She is part of the very essence of who I am. She is always loved, and always missed!
Her nickname will be EmmaMags….I can already hear it!

Girl Name 2 – Esme Raquel
Esme – I really don’t know where I heard it first or last but it’s something that sticks….Ryan hates it! Ha I think there is something soft and whimsical about it.
Raquel – It’s my niece’s middle name, and I just adore it. Is strong but feminine…something I would hope my daughter would be.

Boy Name 1 – Elliot Michael –
Elliot – My Nursery was decorated in a Pete’s Dragon Theme when I was a Baby. My dad painted a GIANT Elliot (Pete’s Dragon) on my wall and crib. We moved..I was devastated (needed counseling…still do..LOL)..Still wish I had that dragon painted on a wall! He was a great comfort.
Elliot is also the name of my favorite Detective on Law and Order SVU….What can I say…Im addicted! If you saw my husband re-in act the intro to the show every week…You would know why!!!
Michael – The Arch Angel and also my Brother in Laws Middle Name. Their son is name after my husband’s middle name…it’s kind of a family thing. I like it.

Boy Name 2 – Preston David –
Preston – Another I don’t know how or why…but I just love it. It just sits well with my heart.
David – Is a mighty hero in the bible, and a mighty hero in my heart. It’s my Daddy’s name…enough said!
His Nick Name will be “PDog”…I can hear my Dad calling him already!

Menu Plan Monday 4/26/10

2010-04-26T13:52:00.000-07:00

Monday - Soup and Grilled Cheese Sandwhiches

Tuesday- BBQ Ranch Chicken, Rice, Mixed Veggies

Wednesday - Chicken Fajitas & Beans

Thursday - Chicken Noodle Mix Up

Friday - Out - Date Night & a Movie

Saturday - Out - Day in Fallbrook with Family Friends

Sunday - Pot Roast, Twice Baked Potatoes, Corn, Rolls - Cookies for Dessert

These are the days of my Life....

2010-03-05T09:27:00.000-08:00

Today's topic at Show us your life... What is a typical day like?

Wake up at 6:00am.

Morning Routing:
1. Take and record Blood Sugar,
2. Watch the News a bit, making sure the world hasn't exploded.
3. Shower, Dress, Paint the Barn, and Play with my Hair.
4. Wake the Hubby
5. Walk the Puppies
6. Make our Lunches and eat breakfast/medicine/vitamins
7. Feed the Fish
8. Set up the Kitchen for the Puppies, for their stay while we are at work
9. Kiss the Hubby Goodbye

Leave for Work 7:30am.

Listen to Pastor Rogers for morning devotionals on our local AM radio station.

Work from 8:00pm-5:00pm

Drive Home from Work

Evening Routine:
1. Change clothes
2. Walk the Puppies
3. 5 Minute Bedroom Fluff - Make the Bed, Clean off Night Stands, Clean up any mis-placed clothes.
4. 5 Minute Bathroom Sparkle - Wipe down the Bathroom (Sink, Mirror, Toilet) from the morning activities
5. 5 Minute Kitchen Scrub down - Unload Dishwasher, Put any dirty dishes in Dishwasher, wipe down counters/appliances/sink.
6. 5 Minute Living room/Dining room Scramble - Pick up and put away anything out of place, wipe down coffee table for crumbs, put remotes away.
7. Set Table for Dinner
8. Cook Dinner
9. Welcome Hubby Home with a Kiss
10. Eat Dinner
11. Hubby Does Dishes (Bless his heart)
12. Do any scheduled home keeping tasks (Laundry on Tuesday's, Wash the Dogs on Thursday's, I do a full house cleaning on Saturday Mornings before Hubby wakes up)
13. Rest, Sew, Watch TV (American Idol is filling most of our evenings right now)

Off to Bed between 10:00-11:00...

I'm trying to figure out how to add an hour at GYM to my day....I think something is going to have to give... There is also a weekly bible study that I would like to get back involved in...hmmm...

Day 2 - 30 Days of Elegance

2010-02-28T19:16:00.000-08:00

For my second day of Elegance we visited a local Tea House in Orange, CA called Paris in a Cup

It was amazingly lovely!!!

A great afternoon with my Great Aunt Janet and Sister in Laws Becky and Krystal!!

This Morning

2010-02-23T14:04:00.001-08:00

I was on my way to work this morning….

Going out of our Condo area when this flash of white fur went running across the street.

I pulled off to the side of the road (In a red, no parking, no stopping zone)…got calmly out of my truck (threw open the door, didn’t look for traffic, and flung myself running across the street)

Looking around for the white flash….I found a cute little white Bichon puppy. I walked over to him as coolly as I could (skipping, smiling, giggling) and said “Hi Puppy”!!! He JUMPED right into my arms…..At this moment I was thinking the following things, which I am not terribly proud of:

1. Does he have a collar?
2. Is it a he or a she?
3. Hmmm…my parents would really think you are cute.
4. How many (I mean one located on the backside of my front door should be plenty )and for what duration (minutes, or seconds) do you have to put a “Lost Dog” sign out before giving said Puppy to my parents?

I opened my truck door, threw the puppy in, just in time for a snot nosed teeny bopper boy to inquire if I had his dog???.(Hmmm…I admit… I thought about lying)… As I passed the puppy thru my truck window, I inquired as to why his dog Did NOT have a collar on….Hmmppp…Irresponsible dog owner…

As the terd walked away with what was surely my Parents next dog, I attempted to turn the key on my truck…..which ended with a pop, a fizz, and nothing… and don’t forget I am stalled in that no stopping/parking zone…

That’s right…all Good deeds do not go unpunished in my little bubble….

After a call to my husband, a call to AAA (Thank goodness my Mother in Law got us our first Membership), I found myself on the road to work with clean battery cables….(Who knew corroded battery cables could cause a lack of power to the engine…), a deep sadness of loss over what could have been a new member of our family, and feeling wonderfully Grateful to a God who makes small Blessings happen every day!!

Dear So and So....

2010-02-19T22:38:00.000-08:00

To read more So and So....visit 3 Bedroom Bungalow.blogspot.com

Dear Cute Little Brunette Secretary,
Skirts should accentuate all of your curves. If you can see your panty lines, while holding your breath.....its too tight for bending over as you "file".

Fondly, The Cute Not So Little Brunette Project Coordinator

Dear Husband,
I respect you for working this week even though you have this terrible cold. You are such a Good Man.

With Love, Your adoring Wife.

Dear Executives at Un-named Company,

Your company is like a Bumble Bee when it comes to making money. We Know it flies, we just don't know how!
We know its hard to connect the dots, but sometimes the shortest distance between point A and point B really is a straight line.

Kind Regards, The Sane Employee locked in the Insane Asylum of a company.

Dear Rain,
Why is it that when you come to California, your visit causes a panic worse than an Earthquake.

See ya around ~ Stuck in Traffic.

Day 1 - 30 Days of Elegance

2010-02-13T07:24:00.000-08:00

Ok...so finding time for 30 straight days of Elegance has proven to be a little rough....perhaps this is one of the reasons I feel like we are always rushing and running!!! Hahaha
That being said, I have made my best effort to get started!!! The Great Wall of China wasn't made in one day, and this Journey might take just as long!!!

I'm taking the list of things, a little out of order due to schedules, but am so excited that I got started!!!
Day 1 Tasteful Luxury - February 12,2010 - Visit your local garden club. Take book to read, surrounded by the beauty God Created

I invited my Mom to join me on this little adventure.

We visited The Sherman Library and Gardens in Corona Del Mar! It was a most beautiful day, and the Gardens were amazing! I was simply captivated by all of the different textures and colors!! Especially the wonderful Koi in the Koi pond (I'm kind of drawn to animals like that!).

What an amazing gift from God, his creativity is awe inspiring!

Do you ever just want to cry...

2010-02-08T16:41:00.000-08:00

I lost some weight and was feeling really great about it. Aunt Flow started on her own without hormones …the first time in years... I thought I was making progress….
Now it won’t stop!!! I’m going on a 5 week long period….
I’m exhausted, I’m cranky, and I’m just done.
Do you know how hard it is to continue eating Salads, Fruit, and Veggies….when all I want is Pasta, Cheese, and Cotton Candy????
I know with everything else going on in the world this is all very trivial….
But in this moment, right here in my little bubble….I JUST WANT TO CRY….
Okay…I feel better now….thanks for listening…

When it rains....it pours.....

2010-01-23T01:09:00.000-08:00

At least it has the last few days in Southern California!!!

30 days of Elegance – Book Review and a Personal call to Action

2010-01-22T16:20:00.000-08:00

As I continue to work on my health and self image, I discovered a book called Beauty by God by Shelly Ballestero (www.shellyballestero.com).

Her book has been full of wonderful insight. She has a wonderful chapter on dressing modestly that really captured my attention. She has a delightful way of presenting an approach that is useful and not just theory.

Shelly writes about surrounding ourselves with beauty and tasteful Luxury. She describes 30 things that we can do to add to the grace around us, and calls the readers to action by doing one thing a day to add elegance to our lives.

My plan is to write here about my personal discoveries as I start this Journey next Monday. I can’t follow her plan in exact order due to schedule conflicts but I have been able to switch a couple days around to fit what is going on in my life.

I would encourage any woman who feels the burden to change her appearance based on “worldly” strain to read this book and understand just how beautiful and perfectly made you are by our Heavenly Father.

God is so Amazing!!!

The tears just keep on comming...

2010-01-14T12:48:00.001-08:00

I write with a heavy heart....I tried for two days to lift my spirit, to pray for peace, to find some kind of way to deal, but the current situation in Haiti has me completely overwhelmed.

I find my self staring at pictures of death, emotional chaos, fear and doubt and find myself longing to do something to help.

As I sit comfortably in my home, I think about the people who are starving, who are lonely, who have no place to turn. People who have lost everything and everyone.

Yesterday I read a blog from a woman who cares for Orphans in Haiti, she talked about her staff and the children sleeping on the street. Babies....on the street. These stories are this Californians biggest fear.

I know that everything is in God's plan, but I wish I knew what his goal was in this disaster.

God has been wooing my heart , I continually stagger across websites or blogs of people who are in the process or have recently adopted a child. As I read and view pictures, I wonder if we could adopt a child from Haiti. I wonder if part of God's wooing is the pain I feel for the people of Haiti.

The tears keep on coming, its feels almost more than I can bare.

Haiti...you are in our prayers.

2010...My To Do List

2010-01-08T13:03:00.000-08:00

Bri’s Goals for 2010
1. Get Closer to God
2. Lose Weight
3. Stay on Budget – Learn ways to save on Groceries
4. Create a Family Household Binder
5. Read one book per month
6. Learn to play the Guitar

Schaaf Family Goals for 2010
1. Get Closer to God/More involved at Calvary Church
2. Lose Weight/Get Healthy
3. Get Finances in Order
4. Get Pregnant

2010 Monthly Focus/Interests for the Schaaf Family
January – Finances/Budget
February – Clean out Guest Room Closet
March - Spring Cleaning
April – Dog Training
May – Dog Training
June – Ocean/Nature
July – Music
August – Baseball
September –Fall/Autumn Actives
October – Art
November – Christmas Shopping
December – Advent Dinners

The Simple Woman's Daybook - December 14, 2009

2009-12-14T12:45:00.000-08:00

FOR TODAY December 14, 2009
Outside my window...Partly Cloudy and 60 Degrees
I am thinking... about the Season of Advent. We celebrated the third week of Advent with a dinner last night with old and new friends. It was really a wonderful time of fellowship.
I am thankful for...forgiveness. It doesn’t come easy, and it sometimes comes with a cost, but it has such wonderful meaning and worth.
From the kitchen... Pumpkin Bread. I have wanted to make some for weeks now. This week I will!
I am wearing...Black and Teal-Green-yellow Top, Black slacks, and strappy heals.
I am creating... a home filled with Christmas Celebrating!
I am going... to spend the evening with Mom tonight. The boys have their bible study tonight and we girls get to eat and chat! I really love my time with her.
I am reading...The Christmas Carol. My husband and I have been reading bits of it before we go to sleep at night. It was been really wonderful.
I am hoping...to see an old friend for lunch this week.
I am hearing...I want a Hippopotamus for Christmas…..I heard it on the radio last week and it hasn’t left my mind.
Around the house... there isn’t much out of place. With our weekly Advent Dinners the four Sunday’s before Christmas, and all of our other Holiday plans, there hasn’t been much time to make a mess!!
One of my favorite things...is looking at Christmas Lights. We took a tour of our area on our date night last Friday. We found wonderful displays, some even to music on an FM channel. Its truly amazing how clever some people are.
A few plans for the rest of the week: Work, Market, Dinner with the In-Laws, Date Night to Rogers Garden’s on Friday, Caroling with my Nieces on Saturday Night, and our Forth Advent Dinner on Sunday.
Here is picture thought I am sharing...

Special thanks to Peggy at The Simple Woman for hosting this post.

Yesterday I was attacked by....

2009-11-17T16:10:00.001-08:00

MY Bra…

That’s right…my underwire decided that it wanted break out and turn into a horrendous torture device….

After trying to tame the beast with thick Band-Aids to pad the poking and skin ripping barbs of steal….I wound up with bleeding slices for fingers…

Note to self….don’t eat an orange the day after….you go to war with your undergarments…. Just thought I would share the good news...

My fingers are burning like there is no tomorrow….Why oh Why…does this stuff always happen to me…..

Waiting for the machine to pick up….

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Do you ever wonder what it would be like if God could use the Phone?

We have an answering machine at our house, and it works hard. If we are away or home, we let it do its job. Some people call it “screening” calls, we call it Sanity. In the midst of our busy lives, sometime we just don’t want to talk to people. Sometimes it’s just not a good time, sometimes it’s a telemarketer, sometimes it’s someone were avoiding. When we are home, we let the phone ring and wait for the talking to begin, and then make the decision if we want to pick up the line. It’s a nice buffer, don’t you think? It’s a nice way to take control and determine how the next moments of our life will be spent.

What if the voice on the line was God? Would it be a comfort? Would it be one of those calls I wouldn’t pick up? Would it make the decisions easier?

These last couple of weeks, God has been pulling at my heart strings. I mean REALLY rearranging the meat and potatoes of life. There are so many times I just want to say…. “Bri’s not in right now leave a message and she will call you back….BEEEEEEEP!!!!!!” That’s a really uncomfortable thing to admit right now, knowing that my Creator, My King has done nothing but provide for me, and yet I continue to be terribly prideful and wonderfully human.

My weight has become the bill collector in my life. You know the guy who says…if you just worked harder, were more disciplined, saved more diligently, I wouldn’t be calling… Can I help it if I am really good at Saving Calories??? My doctors believe that my weight is a direct link to my inability to have babies. Isn’t that just a slap in the face and heart? In the back of my mind I ponder thoughts like “Eat to Live, not Live to Eat” or “It’s just a half hour of exercise, do you know how many half hour’s there are in a day?”, or “If you can’t control what you weigh, how do you expect to set examples for children, and raise them well”…..can you see where this thinking leads me? Straight for the nearest mozzarella stick or french-fry.

Which leads me to the next caller, the Guilt-Filled Volunteer Support Call: You know these calls, the Local Fire Department, The next “would be Governor (Or Govenator, as we like to call him in California)”, the local charity, or Girl Scout. From the worry, pain, and need of a child in our home my heart brings me to thoughts of Adoption. God has blessed me with a husband who feels called to adopt a child and for most of my life, I have heard the call. However, as we all know….Hearing and Doing….are two very different things…. We received an information packet from a Christian Adoption Agency in the mail a few weeks ago. We read thru the information, and have prayed about it, but haven’t done much else. I have been plagued with indecision and self doubt. How do you make such a life changing decision?

As the weeks have gone by, another message has started to blink. It’s a message from one of those special people in your life. They come in all shapes and sizes, in all types of relationships, they are sometimes family, and often times friends. The call came from my Dad. He has proposed that we go on a mission trip together with our church. It’s down to Guadalajara Mexico, in the end of January. My Mom doesn’t feel terribly called to go, and my husband can’t take time off of his new job. I have the vacation time saved, I know God will provide the means, and it would be a wonderful opportunity serving God’s children next to an amazing man, that I am honored to call my Father, yet I am having a terrible time finding the faith to say yes. It makes my heart ache to think of it. What is wrong with me?

As tempted as I am to push the delete button, and continue on my current path, I know that God is wooing my heart. I know that he is continuing to work in my life and the lives around me. I know that all I have to do is listen to the call, and walk out in faith. Anyone need to go for a walk??

Puppy Vests

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This was so much fun to make!

Lets Go Broncos

Opie likes his new Vest!!

The Simple Woman's Daybook - November 9, 2009

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FOR TODAY…11/09/09
Outside my window...Cloudy but Warm.
I am thinking...about God’s plan for my life. He is tugging on my heart strings in a couple areas, two of which are completely out of my box, but not out of his plan. Making the choice to move where he leads, because I certainly don’t want to go anywhere without him.
I am thankful for...my Dad. We went to Breakfast this morning and enjoyed some time talking and feeling. He is such a blessing.
From the kitchen...Pumpkin Bread!!! After all it is one of my favorite fall treats!
I am wearing...lots of black today! Black top, pants, and shoes!
I am creating...Fleece Shirts/vests for the puppies. Specifically with Denver Broncos fleece….I am after all one of their biggest fans.
I am going...to take a nap at lunch today!
I am reading...Katherine, by Anya Seton – It’s a great classic.
I am hoping...that God will give us some direction on some decisions in our near future.
I am hearing...the sound track of Wicked in my head….I listened to it on my way in to work this morning….and now its stuck in there!!!..... “Popular…you want to be Popular”…
Around the house... we have dirty puppies, dirty clothes, and dirty dishes…I have some cleaning to do.
One of my favorite things...Coming home to happy puppies!
A few plans for the rest of the week: Housework on Tuesday, Date Night on Friday, Dinner and Movies with the Boys on Saturday, Church on Sunday. It’s a relatively slow week!!
Here is picture for thought I am sharing...
Our Cute Puppies
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Wordle

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What a fun tool!

The Simple Woman's Daybook - September 28, 2009

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FOR TODAY: September 28, 2009

Outside my window...62 Degrees….and Cloudy… is Fall finally here? I am getting really excited if it is!!!

I am thinking... Dressing in Dresses and Skirts this week. Feelin' Feminine has challenged women to be “fearlessly feminine”. I am thinking about taking the challenge.

I am thankful for...our puppies. They keep us laughing and comforted. They are good dogs.

From the kitchen... Apple-pie…leftovers from Sunday Dinner. My husband and I are going to have to share the last piece after dinner tonight.

I am wearing...Black and Blue dress, Strappy Heals

I am creating... Purses!! I am loving my sewing machine!

I am going... to my home town’s annual festival called Tustin Tiller Days with my husband for Date night this week. Looking forward to sharing some childhood memories under the autumn sky.

I am reading...O Pioneers, I am almost done with it, and it’s a great book! I need to go to the book store and pick up October’s book for the book club I am part of.

I am hoping...that my husband will hear something about a new job. We are praying like crazy, and know that God will see us through.

I am hearing...chatter and Geek talk, I love working in IT.

Around the house... I am enjoying my fall decorations. I am so pleased with how they turned out. I love this time of the year!

One of my favorite things...My calendar, it keeps us organized and on track!

A few plans for the rest of the week: Work, Angel’s Game on Wednesday, Tiller Days of Friday, lunch with a good friend on Saturday, and Church and Sunday Dinner. Good Stuff!

Here is picture thought I am sharing...

This is our cute Diesel next to some of our Fall Decor.
Special thanks to Peggy at The Simple Woman for hosting this post.

Wordful Wednesday - September 23, 2009 - Men Playing Like Boys

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A wife should be very scared when she hears "No Way!!! REALLY??" and then the door slams!! Especially when your husband returns back with one of these....

But because nothing is fun if you do it alone....he got one for his best friend too...

That's right....my favorite Guitar Hero's needed ice cold Slurpee refreshment to continue on with their Manliness!!!

Check out 7-11 if you have a Manly Man, who needs a few moments of boy hood silliness!!!

Sewing Fun 9/22/09

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Another wonderful pattern by Keyka Lou Patterns

This little clutch has become an instant favoriate of mine to carry!

I just love the Geisha print. It reminds me of the prints from WWII.

It even has a pocket on the inside. Its small but has just enough room for the esentials to carry for a wonderful date night with my hubby.

Sewing Fun 9/13/09

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I so enjoyed spending a Sunday morning and afternoon sewing a purse. I know....I know...sewing is NOT a good replacement for church , but I had a sick husband at home, and couldn't ignore the call of my sewing machine.

Thanks to Keyka Lou Patterns I ended up with a darling purse by the end of the afternoon! I just had to share! My husband even thinks it cute, and said he was proud of me!!

TaDAH!!!

I just love that it has pockets!!

The Simple Woman's Daybook - September 14, 2009

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FOR TODAY…9/14/09

Outside my window...Cloudy and 75 degrees!

I am thinking...that I want to go somewhere soon where I can swim and float around with a frozen umbrella drink.

I am thankful for...the beginning of Ugg wearing weather…well it’s almost here at least!!

From the kitchen...Cookies! The weather is changing, and I am getting in the mood to bake!

I am wearing...lots of black today! Black top, pants, and shoes!

I am creating...Another bag. I worked hard this weekend to complete a bag and it turned out wonderfully!

I am going...to dinner tonight with my Mom tonight.

I am reading...Wives and Daughters

I am hoping...that my husband feels better. He is having some stomach issues today. I hate it when he is sick.

I am hearing...lots of humanness; it’s a good day to be alive today!

Around the house...we have puppies to wash and clothes to clean! Almost caught up on my laundry!

One of my favorite things...Driving to work with the music loud and the sun roof open in my husband stick shift red sportscar. We didn’t carpool because he is home sick today. I got to race around singing “It’s Five O’clock Somewhere” at the top of my lungs at 8am!! Its a great way to start the day!

A few plans for the rest of the week: Housework tomorrow night, Family Matters on Wednesday at Church, Laundry on Thursday, and that funny thing called work.

Here is picture for thought I am sharing...

These are my grandparents. I hope that Ryan and I look like this when we have been married for 50+ years!

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Word Filled Wednesday - August 2, 2009

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I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the LORD in the land of the living.
Psalm 27:13

Totally Quotable Tuesday - September 1, 2009

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"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly."
~ Richard Bach

I find great hope and peace in this quote, knowing that my God has a plan for my life even when I can’t see the path before me.

The Simple Woman's Daybook - August 31, 2009

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FOR TODAY August 31, 2009

Outside my window...82 Degrees….and Sunny… the Southern California fires have stayed away from our home at this point, but a cool down and a little wetness sure would help to ease my worry.

I am thinking... about questions of timing, death, and if a dear friend (click here to learn more about her) who died last week somehow found her way to the arms of my savior. The only peace I can hold on to is that my lord has a plan even if it feels like the end of the world to my heart.

I am thankful for...My parents. They held a wonderful Memorial Celebration for our friend Mrs. Wilson. She didn’t want a funeral, or service, just a wonderful time of celebration and storytelling. It was a magical afternoon of tears and laughter. Mrs. Wilson would have loved it.

From the kitchen... cheap and easy tonight…Hamburger Helper. With a weekend full of emotional chaos, I have lots of housework and laundry to catch up on. Simple Yummy Goodness it is!

I am wearing...Black and Teal Top, Black slacks, and strappy heals.

I am creating... Felt Kit Christmas Ornaments.

I am going... to visit my Grandparents this weekend for the long Holiday weekend with my Mom. My sweet grandfather is in the middle stages of Alzheimer’s and we hope to be a positive distraction to our family who are his caregivers.

I am reading...The Bad Girls of the Bible and Wives and Daughters.

I am hoping...that my husband has an amazing time on the annual fishing trip with the guys this weekend. Camping, Fishing, Dirt….I know my city boy isn’t terribly passionate about any of it, but I hope he will enjoy the testosterone bonding and God’s beautiful design of nature.

I am hearing...paper flipping, conference calls, and chatting.

Around the house... lots of packing and planning for this weekend coming up.

One of my favorite things...My Crockpot. It is the working girls dream tool for yummy dinners!

A few plans for the rest of the week: Work, Market and Housework Tonight, Cooking for the boys tomorrow night, Packing, and A trip to Northern California.

Here is picture thought I am sharing...

This is Mrs. Wilson and I on my wedding day! She will be missed greatly!

Special thanks to Peggy at The Simple Woman for hosting this post.

Totally Quotable Tuesday

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It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad. C. S. Lewis

This quote speaks to me!! Screams to me!! I need to hatch!! Now!

The Simple Woman's Daybook - July 20,2009

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FOR TODAY …July 20, 2009

Outside my window...76 Degrees and Clear Blue Skies…This is one of those most wonderful summer days that is going to be wasted sitting in my cubicle. I would much rather be at the pool or the beach enjoying the sun.

I am thinking...about my bible study that is starting tonight. I am the facilitator and we are starting with Liz Curtis Higgs – Bad Girls of the Bible. It’s been a lot of fun to read so far. I am excited to get this going.

I am thankful for...our cars. They just keep on ticking.

From the kitchen...homemade grape jelly! I am on a mission to can some ASAP. Never done it before but that’s never stopped me!

I am wearing...Black top, Black Slacks, Black Shoes

I am creating...our year book for 2008 on Picaboo. I have hit a bit of a road block as I have met the maximum size for data and pictures and still have some tweaking to do…It’s a little frustrating.

I am going...to the bookstore sometime today to get the rest of the books from the girls in my study.

I am reading...Wives and Daughters, The Bad Girls of the Bible

I am hoping...that my husband gets an interview for a job he applied for.

I am hearing...my brain snoring! I am having a hard time getting going this morning.

Around the house...I need to call to get maintenance on our dish washer. It’s not quiet working well and it’s really frustrating.

One of my favorite things...The Lap Top my husband got me for Christmas. It is just an amazing little piece of Technology. I just love it.

A few plans for the rest of the week: Work, Housework, Laundry, Bible Study tonight, Demolition Derby if we can find tickets at the fair on Friday, Church, and maybe I might get to go see Pat Benatar and Blondie with the girls in my family if we can get Tickets for Sunday.

Here is picture thought I am sharing...

This is Carter my Grand Nephew. I just love every opportunity I get to Snuggle with this little guy!

He is a total Snuggle Monkey!

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